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Massage My Woman

Teaching enhanced foreplay techniques for men to give to women

This course is suitable for men who want to learn how to sensually massage women for either personal pleasure, or to start a career as a professional tantric masseur.

The aim is to teach men how to become excellent lovers by understanding the sexual physiology and psychology of women. By the end of the course you will be fully equipped with specialist knowledge and skills to stimulate a woman.

You will practice on personally vetted female volunteers. Past massage experience is not necessary but you do need to have a desire to give sensual touch.

The Massage My Woman training will take your capabilities of being a first class lover to another level, and provide deeper insight into the female sexual process.

Extend the length your lovemaking by learning the art of giving your woman a superb sensual massage. Heighten your pleasure by giving her pleasure.

Become skilled in giving great erotic foreplay, to include clitoral stimulation, external vaginal massage, nipple stimulation.

Discover the secret places on her body where your touch will send her wild. Learn arousal techniques that put you in the expert league

Hear her say these words “Don’t stop that’s amazing.”

As well as learning to give a full body sensual massage you will also practice the following arousal techniques…

  • Edging her to orgasm
  • Both sides of body massage
  • Breast massage
  • Nipple stimulation
  • Assertive caring control
  • Mild Sub/Dom techniques
  • Anal touch (optional)
  • Vaginal massage (optional)
  • G spot massage
  • Anterior vaginal massage
  • Body to body techniques
  • Ejaculation techniques

Your personal teacher will be Colin Richards from Intimacy Matters. Colin is a renowned expert in the fields of of psychosexual health, sensual massage and sexual intimacy.

He has been featured in many publications including Cosmopolitan, Metro, Time Out to name just a few. His training and personal sensual massages have given him a 5 star rating on Trust Pilot.

Just yourself. You will be provided with a female volunteer to practise on.

The course is hosted at the Intimacy Matters treatment rooms located in Sloane Square SW1X. Exact locations for the course will be emailed to you once you have booked the training.

The training can be booked when ever is suitable for you. You can talk directly to your tutor to choose a date that is convenient.

Please contact the course teacher to find out fees and what course is most suitable for your objectives.

Choose the right training for you

There are four different training options…

This experiential session is for men who want to explore what it is like to give a sensual massage to a women but with the guidance of an expert and as a four hands massage.

This 6-hour course is the starting point and can be taken on its own or as step one to move on to either the intermediate or advanced courses below.

It is recommended for the man who wants to generally improve his knowledge as a lover. Starting with a 30-minute discussion about female sexuality you will then join Colin to give a 90-minute sensual massage to a female receiver.

During this massage Colin will show you various movements and technique to stimulate and arouse the female body. This is then followed by a short interval when you will get feedback from the female receiver on your style and technique.

The second massage can either be one you receive or by request you can practice a second time on the female receiver. This workshop does not include any internal stimulation of the female receiver.

Classes are to be taken in 2 x 3-hour sessions on separate days within a month.

In this course you will learn –

  • To gives a full body sensual massage
  • To encourage slow arousal by stimulating her mind via touch of the sensitive but non-erotic areas of the female body
  • To give breast and nipple massage
  • To give buttock and upper thigh massage
  • To master clitoral stimulation
  • To explore external vaginal stimulation
  • To edging her towards multiple orgasms

12 Hour Combined Foundation & Intermediate Course – taken as 4 x 3 hour classes taken within two months.

The 12-hour Combined Foundation & Intermediate Class is for the man who wants to go deeper in understanding female sexual arousal and learn how to give a sensual massage for personal use to improve his confidence and knowledge in giving sexual arousal to excite both the female body and mind.

The course can either include three practice sessions on two separate volunteers and then receiving your own massage at the end of the day, which can be therapeutic or sensual and is given by Colin. Or you can opt to replace your massage with a 4th practice session on a female volunteer.

Times can be adjusted to suit or split into two halves, day or evening. These practice sessions start with you being partially clothed but as each massage unfolds you may (if you are comfortable) become naked.

In this course you will learn –

  • Giving a full body sensual massage
  • Learn to encourage slow arousal by stimulating her mind via touch of the sensitive but non-erotic areas of the female body
  • Using your body contact to stimulate her Breast and nipple massage Buttock and upper thigh massage
  • Clitoral stimulation
  • External vaginal stimulation
  • Internal vaginal stimulation
  • Internal G-Spot & D-Spot stimulation
  • Introducing light domination into the massage
  • External anal stimulation
  • Edging her over to multiple orgasms

20 Hour Advanced Professional Training (including foundation & intermediate) – taken as 4 x 5 hour session.

Become a part-time or full-time professional sensual masseur for women.

This professional training is specifically designed for those men who want a career as a professional sensual therapist giving to female clients. Whether it is to work part-time or full-time, the knowledge you will take from this course can immediately launch you into a career that can potentially earn you upwards of £4000 a month as a full-time practitioner.

You will become skilled in giving a 90-minute full body sensual massage – with 10-12 hours of guided massage sessions, practising on three different (fit, healthy-bodied) female volunteer receivers.

Course includes the following teaching:

  • Understanding female arousal and what women really enjoy sensually and sexually
  • On how to welcome and have a pre-treatment conversation
  • Client care to encourage confidence and calm in the client
  • Learning standard therapeutic massage techniques
  • How to gradually incorporate full body sensual arousal
  • Learn to encourage slow arousal by stimulation of her mind via touch of the sensitive but non-erotic areas of the female body
  • Use your body contact to stimulate her
  • Give breast and nipple massage within the massage
  • Buttock and upper thigh massage within the massage
  • Clitoral stimulation
  • External vaginal stimulation
  • Internal vaginal stimulation
  • Internal G-Spot & D-Spot stimulation
  • Introducing light domination into the massage
  • External anal stimulation
  • Edging her over to multiple orgasm
  • Oral stimulation techniques

Other training

  • 3 hours of theory on the psychological and emotional aspects of giving a sensual massage
  • Your own 90-minute massage that is given by Colin at the end of the first 8 hours training (this is optional and can be swapped for another practice session with a volunteer).

Business Training

  • Setting up your treatment space
  • Creating your brand and image
  • Researching target markets
  • Client management
  • Business set-up
  • Productive cost-effective marketing.
  • 6 months of telephone support providing further ongoing advice and guidance.

The course can be split into 2 sessions of 10 hours or 4 sessions of 5 hours and can be taken during the daytime from 9.30am or evenings up to 11 pm.

To qualify for the 20-hour professional course you must have done one of the following…

  • Attended either one of Colin’s private or group workshops of any type
  • Seen Colin as a client for treatment
  • Taken other courses or workshops in sensual massage or tantra
  • Worked part-time or full time for at least a year in the adult sex industry as a masseur or escort or adult performer.
  • Have had at least 6-months massage experience either professionally or as an enthusiastic amateur.

Applied for and taken a telephone interview with Colin discussing your motivations and ambitions for taking this 20-hour course.



What people say

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I’ve recently taken part in a private 20 hour sensual massage course with Colin. Colin clearly has a lot of knowledge and experience in the field of sensual massage as well as other psychosensual treatments so was an obvious choice to train with. He is very professional but also operates in a relaxed manner putting everyone at ease making for enjoyable training sessions and easy learning. The training sessions took place at Colin’s Battersea treatment room, which is worth a visit for the views alone. The 20 hours was taken as 4 x 5 hours sessions over a 3 week period which worked well, allowing me to digest what I had learned each time and practice elsewhere before coming back for the next session. There was a combination of demonstration massage, 4-hand massages with Colin, 2-hand massage with Colin giving advice and guiding and finally 2-hand massage with Colin providing feedback. I believe the training was invaluable and would recommend it to anyone thinking of offering sensual massage either to their partner or professionally. I’d like to thank Colin and all the volunteers who so generously gave their time.
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Yes you can cancel and choose another date to come. Please contact your tutor directly and as soon as possible if you need to cancel your course and wish to change dates.

Please email your tutor directly to cancel your place on the course. Please do this as soon as you know you can’t make it. 

These classes are popular, and I am also busy with treatment appointments, so I generally run only one five-hour class daily. If you have specific dates, booking at least two weeks in advance is best.

Depending on your chosen class, you may practice on one to six female volunteer receivers. I currently have about 240 women on my volunteer receivers list. Almost all professional women have been to see me as a client or have received a demonstration massage from me and then decided to volunteer. They are aged between 21 and 55 and can be of any ethnicity or physique, from slim to curvy. All are very comfortable with other sexuality and are eager to help men learn more about sensual foreplay and the erotic arousal of women.

When I have a class booked a couple of days before the class, I send out a request to those on the list giving basic details of the student whom I require a receiver for. I send them your image, your name ( it can be a pseudonym) and basic information about you ( profession, age, sexuality) and your motivation for taking the class.

If a student selects to have a volunteer from this list as their receiver rather than bring their own, I try to match the student’s desired type as stated on their application form. However, age and body type are never guaranteed as much depends on who is available on the day. Generally, the women on this volunteer list are happy to receive clitoral and vaginal arousal and body-to-body contact within the massage; however, receiving oral stimulation or giving any reciprocal touch back to the students is their decision on the day.

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