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Massage My Man & Sensual Sisters

Teaching women how to give an expert sensual massage to a man or another woman

This course is suitable for women who want to learn how to give a high quality sensual massage to either a man, woman or both. 

The 2.5 hour Experiential, 6 hour Foundation, or 12 hour Combined Foundation & Intermediate training is ideal for enhancing your personal relationships.

The 20-hour professional training and business set up is best for those wanting to become a part time or full time professional sensual masseur.

With massage practice given on vetted male or female volunteer receivers.

Giving a sensual massage to a man…

Take him to new heights of pleasure both physically and emotionally, perfect the art of body to body massage, edging to orgasm, prostate massage.

Giving a sensual massage to a woman…

Learn to give another woman what you love to receive yourself, body to body, clitoral and vaginal massage, G and A Spot massage, female ejaculation.

All training are tailored to your specific requirements and can be taken most days of the week split into half days or evenings.

You do not need to take the courses in any particular order. You cant go immediately to a 10 or 20 hours training or start with the Experiential 2.5 hour.

These training can be for practicing on men only, women only or a combination of both male and female.

The training is primarily learning how to give a 90-minute therapeutic/sensual massage that combines techniques of arousal to orgasm, stimulation of erogenous areas as well as becoming an expert in learning the psychology of arousal of the male and/or female mind.

Training usually takes place at my private apartments in central London but can also be arranged for home sessions.

There is no age limit to taking a training and you can specify the type of volunteers you wish to practice on or bring along your partner.

Your personal teacher will be Colin Richards from Intimacy Matters. Colin is a renowned expert in the fields of of psychosexual health, sensual massage and sexual intimacy.

Colin has been featured in many publications including Cosmopolitan, Metro, Time Out to name just a few. His training and personal sensual massages have given him a 5 star rating on Trust Pilot.

Just yourself. You will be provided with either a male or female volunteer to practice on.

The course is hosted at the Intimacy Matters treatment rooms located in Sloane Square SW1X. Exact locations for the course will be emailed to you once you have booked the training.

The training can be booked when ever is suitable for you. Once your deposit has been paid you can talk directly to your tutor to choose a date that is convenient.

Please contact the course teacher to find out fees and what course is most suitable for your objectives.

Choose the right training for you

There are four different training options…

Learn & enjoy at the same time by giving a four hands massage with Colin.

This massage practice is for those who want to explore what it is like to give a sensual massage to another person but to give it with the guidance of an expert as a four hands massage.

On booking, I find out what it is you want to explore in giving the massage practice. Then I find a volunteer to suit and arrange a mutually convenient time for the practice.

On the day we start by having a brief chat to understand how the volunteer ‘receiver’ likes to enjoy the massage. I then take 15 minutes to teach you some standard massage strokes for the back, legs, buttocks and shoulders.

Then once you are feeling confident and at ease and the volunteer is relaxed we start the four hands massage. We work together with you following my lead. The intention is to create a sensually enjoyable experience for both the receiver and yourself rather than learn specific massage techniques.

Simply by giving a sensual massage in this way, you will not only enjoy the pleasure of giving but also learn first-hand some essential aspects of a sensual massage. The massage will include full body arousal, genital massage, edging the orgasm, bringing to orgasm and optional prostate massage.

You can remain clothed or be naked when giving the massage. If there are specific aspects you want to include in the massage, then let me know and we can incorporate this into the session – for example, light spanking or domination.

Mastering Foreplay with Sensual Massage

This 5-hour training is ideal as a taster or for those women wanting to just enjoy giving a massage to a man or woman under instruction. Student gives one massage under instruction with Colin to the volunteer then either receive a massage themselves from Colin (sensual or therapeutic).

Classes are to be taken in 2 x 3-hour sessions on separate days within a month.

Practicing on a male or a female volunteer followed by your own massage or the same volunteer in two sessions without your own massage.

12-hour Foundation & Intermediate Combined Sensual Massage Course

This is a 12-hour course or 2 x 5 hours or other agreed time split.

The 12-hour training is for the girlfriend, wife or single women who would like to learn how to give a sensual massage for personal use but includes extended teaching in prostate massage, body to body and edging to orgasm on men if giving to women it can include female ejaculation techniques as well.

This workshop is really good for women who want to boost their confidence to become skilled sexual lovers. The training includes three practice sessions on volunteers, discussion on male and female arousal and what men and women really want. Techniques in giving a sensational genital massage and instruction on how to best give body to body massage.

The course includes the option of receiving your own 75-minute 2 hands massage at the end of the day.

An ideal workshop for the woman who wants to become part-time or full-time professional sensual masseur. Combines the Foundation, Intermediate and Advanced Training in one package.

This workshop is specifically designed for those who want a career as professional sensual therapists.

Whether it is to work part-time or full-time, the knowledge you will take from this workshop can immediately launch you into a career that could potentially earn you upwards of £4000 ($6000) a month as a full-time practitioner.

Practice on male, or female, or both gender volunteers.

The workshop includes:

Up to 12 hours guided massage sessions practicing on male or female volunteer receivers to include specific teaching on…

  • sensual and erotic arousal
  • prolonging/maximizing orgasm
  • heightening intimacy by using body to body techniques
  • creating confident sensual touch
  • Learning to give a 4 hands massage
  • Greater awareness of the erotic zones of the body

For those working with male clients –

  • prostate massage
  • genital massage
  • scrotum massage
  • edging orgasm
  • managing premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction

For those working with female clients –

  • Techniques in breast stimulation
  • Clitoral stimulation
  • Vaginal and G spot massage

As well as…

  • 3 hours of theory on the psychological and emotional aspects of giving a sensual massage.
  • 3 hours on researching target markets, client management, business set-up, branding and marketing.
  • 6 months of telephone support following your workshop providing further advice and guidance.
  • 12 months access to ten hours of sensual massage video tutorials.
  • 6 month’s free promotion on the Intimate Tutorials website.
  • Your own 90-minute massage given by Colin at the end of the first eight hours of training.

The workshop can be split into two sessions of ten hours or four sessions of five hours and can be taken during the day or evenings from 9.00 am up to 11.00 pm over a maximum period of 4 weeks.

To qualify for the 20-hour professional course you must have done one of the following –

  • 6 practice sessions with a massage for yourself or 7 without.
  • Attended either one of Colin’s private or group workshops of any type.
  • Seen Colin as a client for treatment.
  • Taken other course or workshops in sensual massage or tantra.
  • Worked part-time or full time for at least a year in the adult sex industry as a masseur or escort or adult performer.
  • Have had at least 6-months massage experience either professionally or as an enthusiastic amateur.
  • Applied for and taken a telephone interview with Colin discussing your motivations and ambitions for taking this 20-hour course.



What people say

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A great experience. Colin makes you feel at ease and takes you on a journey to discover exciting aspects of sexuality in a friendly engaging environment. I would highly recommend this to singles or couples who want to learn about themselves and spend a relaxing evening with like minded others.
John Doe
John Doe
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I had an amazing experience and was able to learn a lot of techniques that is required to perform an erotic massage that will hopefully enable to enhance my sexuality with my partner. Aside from the technique, Colin also was very comprehensive in consulting the psychologic side of it. Thx
Given by two female friends who attended 5-hour evening workshop, learning to give a sensual massage to a man to improve their sensual foreplay skills and knowledge and confidence in erotic arousal.
Given by two female friends who attended 5-hour evening workshop, learning to give a sensual massage to a man to improve their sensual foreplay skills and knowledge and confidence in erotic arousal.
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I am glad I did a session with you. All aspects of the learning, the massage techniques, the intimacy it brings between 2 people and talking to you, understanding the male/female mind and human psychology was so very interesting and eye-opening. Women really do wonder how men think. Therefore to be able to sit with someone in an environment where we feel safe and can be honest and open to learning a new perspective and have even simple questions answered was great. I have struggled in my relationships in the past so it was good to receive some guidance, lots of fruit for thought. It also helped me learn more about myself as well. As for the demonstration/practice massage we both did like that because we want to be able to give something special or a little extra in our relationships or anytime we meet someone we want to do something intimate for.
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