Couples Private Workshop
Introduction
Giving sensual massage (with integrated erotic foreplay techniques) to one another or giving as a couple to another female or male or another couple. The practice massages in these classes can be given between the couple or on a male or female volunteer receiver.
You will learn how to provide your partner with a special and deeply pleasurable sensual massage.
If you enjoy the sexual side of your relationship but feel like you need to learn more, this is the course for you.
Ideal for couples seeking to reignite the spark in their relationship while preserving their connection and monogamy. The course will be a worthwhile investment in your happiness, offering a chance to learn and enjoy pleasure together in a secure, private setting, guided by a qualified expert.
Your personal teacher will be Colin Richards from Intimacy Matters. Colin is a renowned expert in the fields of of psychosexual health, sensual massage and sexual intimacy.
Colin has been featured in many publications including Cosmopolitan, Metro, Time Out to name just a few. His training and personal sensual massages have given him a 5 star rating on Trust Pilot.
Just yourself and your wife / girlfriend / husband / boyfriend.
The course is hosted at the Intimacy Matters treatment rooms located in Sloane Square SW1X. Exact locations for the course will be emailed to you from your tutor once you have completed your course booking.
The training can be booked when ever is suitable for you. You can talk directly to your tutor to choose a date that is convenient.
Please contact the course teacher to find out fees and what course is most suitable for your objectives.
Choose the right training for you
There are three different training options for couples to choose from…
Introduction to sensual massage
The couple’s experiential sessions serve as an ideal introduction for couples seeking to infuse their intimate lives with greater intimacy and creativity, or for those interested in exploring a more open approach to their sexual relationship.
Frequently, couples may feel a mix of excitement and nervousness when considering opening up their sexual relationship, uncertain about how to proceed. Attending a party or group gathering can seem daunting, while meeting strangers online can feel risky.
Opting for an Experiential session with a qualified tutor provides a safe and confidential environment for couples to explore.
The experiential massage session offers various arrangements: one partner receives while the other gives, or both partners receive massages sequentially.
Additionally, couples can involve a male or female volunteer receiver to practice with, introducing a dynamic of three- or four-way interaction as they engage in erotic massage.
The massages provided are tailored to individual preferences. Couples have the flexibility to customise the massage content to align with their desires and comfort levels.
What to expect during in the session
On the appointed day, your tutor Colin will engage you in a brief discussion to understand the preferences of the receiver (whether it’s one person or both partners).
Following this, the tutor will dedicate 15 minutes to instructing you on standard massage techniques for the back, legs, buttocks, and shoulders.
Once you feel confident and your partner is relaxed, we will commence the massage.
This four-hand massage requires comfort from both partners in receiving my touch. For men who may prefer not to receive intimate touch from another male, I can guide their partner instead of providing direct arousal.
If both partners are comfortable, we will collaborate with the giver in both massages, following my guidance throughout the session.
The aim is to craft a sensually gratifying experience for both the receiver and the giver, rather than focusing on mastering precise massage techniques.
By engaging in sensual massage in this manner, you will find pleasure in giving and gain valuable firsthand experience in essential aspects of sensual massage.
The massage can include the following…
- full body arousal
- genital massage
- edging the orgasm
- bringing to orgasm
- optional prostate massage for men (optional)
- clitoral and vaginal and G-spot (women)
- ejaculation for women (optional)
You can also add other elements that you may want to explore. Receivers are naked when receiving; the givers can remain clothed or be naked when giving the massage.
Ideal for expanding your skills to enhance your sexual relationship
This 5-hour class is perfect for couples seeking to enhance their foreplay and sexplay skills by learning new techniques.
It’s ideal for those looking to reinvigorate their sexual relationship or explore new sensations with their partner, as well as for newly formed couples aiming to understand each other’s preferences from the start.
During the practice, partners can either give massages to each other or practice with a volunteer, either male or female, or with each other.
If the practice focuses on one partner in the couple, they will receive two practice massages, each lasting 90 minutes and performed with four hands.
The first session is more instructional, while the second session emphasizes visual instruction, allowing the couple to put into practice what they learned in the initial session.
In the second session, guidance is provided non-verbally to make the experience feel as natural as possible.
If both partners in the couple are receiving massages, the instructional practice massages are performed with four hands for 60 minutes each.
Following this, each partner receives a 60-minute four-hand visual instruction massage to practice the techniques they’ve learned.
Techniques taught
For her receiving…
- An overview of the primal female sexual dynamic and why erotic massage is both pleasurable and healthy
- Relaxing her mind and body to bring on arousal
- Therapeutic massage routine
- Teasing touch to stimulate
- Various styles of clitoral stimulation and positions
- G spot and external and internal vaginal massage
- Body-to-body techniques
- Encouraging multiple orgasm
For him receiving…
- Stimulating his mind and playing with his arousal
- Understanding that males need to be approved of
- Massaging with upper body
- Full Body-to-body techniques
- Edging techniques to keep him waiting
- Masturbation styles
- External anal touch
- Bringing him to an explosive orgasm
Prices and Options
The prices below are for classes taken on weekday evenings 5 pm to 10 pm or Saturdays.
Explore, arouse, and prolong the pleasure. Learn even more skills and become a confident lover.
The 10-hour class can be split into 2 x 5-hour periods on separate days.
This workshop caters to couples eager to delve into the intricacies of giving a sensual massage and understanding the psychology and physiology behind arousal and improved sexual performance.
The course begins with a foundational 5-hour session, followed by an intermediate 5-hour class, which introduces additional techniques and practice sessions.
Private Workshop Version:
Designed for couples seeking focused instruction while practicing exclusively on each other, this version enhances foreplay skills, genital arousal, and sexual performance. It can be customized to accommodate the couple’s specific curiosities and desires. Your tutor Colin provides instruction to both males and females, with each couple following along as he teaches.
Workshop with Volunteer Receivers Version:
In this variation, couples initially practice on each other during the foundational sessions, mirroring Option 1. During the second 5-hour intermediate session, practice sessions can involve male or female (or both) volunteer receivers.
When practicing on these receivers, couples can choose between a tandem approach, with both partners working simultaneously on massage beds side by side, or a four-hands method, where the couple works together to massage each volunteer one after the other. The gender of the volunteer receiver is at the discretion of the couple.
Specific teaching includes
For her receiving…
- An overview of the primal female sexual dynamic and why erotic massage is both pleasurable and healthy
- Relaxing her mind and body to bring on arousal
- Therapeutic massage routine
- Teasing touch to stimulate
- Various styles of clitoral stimulation and positions
- G spot and external and internal vaginal massage
- Body-to-body techniques
- Encouraging multiple orgasms
- Assertive arousal techniques
- G spot and vaginal massage
- Body-to-body techniques
- Light BDSM
- Encouraging ejaculation and multiple orgasms
- Oral techniques
- Incorporating sex toys
- Creative positions for penetrative sex
- Stimulating his mind and playing with his arousal
- Understanding that males need to be approved of
- Massaging with upper body
- Full Body-to-body techniques
- Edging techniques to keep him waiting
- Masturbation styles
- External anal touch
- Bringing him to an explosive orgasm
- Masturbation styles
- Prostate massage (optional)
- Oral techniques
- Edging and prolonging ejaculation & edging
- Incorporating Sex toys
- Using a strap-on on him (optional)
Prices and options
The prices below are for classes taken on weekday evenings 5 pm to 10 pm or Saturdays.
If classes are booked for weekdays between 10 am and 5 pm, there is a 10% additional cost.
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FAQ
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Yes you can cancel and choose another date to come. Please contact your tutor directly and as soon as possible if you need to cancel your course and wish to change dates.
Please email your tutor directly to cancel your place on the course. Please do this as soon as you know you can’t make it.
These classes are popular, and I am also busy with treatment appointments, so I generally run only one five-hour class daily. If you have specific dates, booking at least two weeks in advance is best.
Depending on your chosen class, you may practice on one to six female volunteer receivers. I currently have about 240 women on my volunteer receivers list. Almost all professional women have been to see me as a client or have received a demonstration massage from me and then decided to volunteer. They are aged between 21 and 55 and can be of any ethnicity or physique, from slim to curvy. All are very comfortable with other sexuality and are eager to help men learn more about sensual foreplay and the erotic arousal of women.
When I have a class booked a couple of days before the class, I send out a request to those on the list giving basic details of the student whom I require a receiver for. I send them your image, your name ( it can be a pseudonym) and basic information about you ( profession, age, sexuality) and your motivation for taking the class.
If a student selects to have a volunteer from this list as their receiver rather than bring their own, I try to match the student’s desired type as stated on their application form. However, age and body type are never guaranteed as much depends on who is available on the day. Generally, the women on this volunteer list are happy to receive clitoral and vaginal arousal and body-to-body contact within the massage; however, receiving oral stimulation or giving any reciprocal touch back to the students is their decision on the day.